Yeah, been there. Done that.
You want to beat your horse over the head with a two by four until they behave, but of course you can’t do that. Not with everyone else looking on, and besides, beating your lovable turned demon child horse with a blunt object really isn’t considered great horse training. So what do you do?
What do you do when your horse tries to nip you when you feed him?
What do you do when they whirl their butt and kick at you when you try to catch them?
What do you do when they drag you willy nilly down the barn aisle, while you smile and try not to look panicked?
What do you do when instead of getting on like they have a million times before, your horse suddenly decides the trailer is an eeeeeevil torture device and rears straight up in the air?
I have had my fair share of ill behaved horses. There was Lori the dragger. Jiffy the rearer. Birdie the bucker. Zaz the nipper. Echo the bolter/bitch horse from hell. Darwin the spooker and finally, Poppy the pusher.
All of these horses made me realize the importance of good ground manners. When you are riding, you can only do so much, especially if you just weren’t born to be an amazing rider (aka me). But on the ground, you have no excuses. I don’t care what breed your horse is, what discipline you ride, or their age… your horse needs to have good ground manners. Period. What do I mean by good ground manners?
- Absolutely no biting or kicking.
- No rearing, charging, or airs above the ground.
- Leads politely
- Is respectful of space
- Clips, trailers, cross ties, single ties
- Handles well for other people
- (add your own here in the comments)
I like to think that my two horses have good ground manners. They both have their quirks (Poppy still won’t lift up her feet, but you try teaching a 1300lb draft that their hooves are better off the ground than on… and Darwin has this weird head lift thing whenever you try to put the bridle on) but for the most part they are quiet, sensible, and well behaved whenever they are being handled. They were not always this way. Let me share a few tips/tricks that helped me, and feel free to share yours.
1) HEAD DOWN: I believe this is the first thing any horse should ever learn. I read about it on a website when I first got Darwin. I had just brought home an off the track thoroughbred and had NO idea how to begin his training. Darwin wasn’t bad, persay… he just wasn’t good. He didn’t always listen when you led him. He was unpredictable. He danced on the end of the lead rope and had no concept of personal space. Enter the “head down” trick. It is fairly easy. You need a halter and a lead rope and lots of patience. Out of the stall, get your horse fairly squared up and straight. Then gently apply pressure to the lead rope directly under the halter and say ‘head down’. HOLD THE PRESSURE (not increasing, not decreasing, but steady) until the horse lowers their head. To begin with, if they dip their head a fraction of an inch release all pressure immediately and praise. Then ask again. This is a particularly good exercise for high headed horses or horses who spook on the ground easily to know. At the end of one lesson you should be able to apply pressure to the lead rope, say ‘head down’, and your horse should drop their head to waist level and (hopefully) hold it there. This is something you can practice every day. When you put on their halter to lead them out to the field, do head down. When you put on the bridle, do head down. Before you turn out, do head down. Eventually this should lead (no pun intended… OK, yes there was) into your horse naturally carrying their head low and level. It is also a good “reality check” when they start to act high strung, pop their head, or get uppity. Any time Darwin begins to have a panic attack at the sight of something white, I tell him ‘head down’ and he instantly relaxes.
3) LEADING MANNERS: Any horse can be led around. Surprisingly, quite a lot have bad manners while they are led to their field, or in to their stall, or around at a horse show. Bad manners = any type of pushing, walking ahead of you, walking behind you, not stopping when you stop, crowding, high head carriage, pulling, etc. Theoretically you should be able to walk your horse on the end of the lead rope and they should stay at your shoulder, respecting approx. an 18” distance at all times, and never pull/push/speed up/slow down unless you tell them. A test for you: go out, get your horse, hold onto the very end of the lead, and see if they will stay with you and behave. Harder than it seems, isn’t it?
The trick with all of this stuff is adhering to the P Equation.
Patience + Persistence = Payoff.
You can’t let your horse pull you to the field when you just corrected that behavior in the ring. When we ride, we tend to only focus on where we are riding, whether that be a ring, a trail, or a field. Once the horse is out of that area we put them on a loose rein and let them dawdle and walk out. Well, when you’re leading a horse EVERYWHERE is that ring, that trail, that field. Horses are smart. If you let them get away with pushing you just a little bit in their stall, they will remember that and build on it the next time. Little things turn into big things real quick. I always think of a girl I knew at a barn I used to board. She had a young horse and thought it was just soooooo cute when that horse nibbled at her jacket collar and played with her hair. She didn’t think it was so cute when he tried to take a chunk out of the side of her face. Who is to blame? Certainly not the horse. All those times she allowed him to nudge and nibble, she was saying SURE! YOU CAN BITE ME! IT’S OK. I THINK IT’S FUNNY! Uh, no. Not funny and certainly not cute.
So the next time you’re out in the barn, try a few of these things I mentioned. If you think your horse already has amazing ground manners, test him. Do they put their head down and yield to pressure quietly and quickly? Do they back up easily? Do they cross tie without flipping their head or moving around or shuffling their feet? Do they stay by your side when you lead them, no matter what distraction may come their way? I know ground manners don’t seem all that important in the grand scheme of things, but think of it this way: if your horse doesn’t respect you on the ground, why the hell would they respect you in the saddle?